Sorry, that last message wasn't as clear as it could have been and I went over the time allowed for edits.
New guy here. Looks like some great tips.
I bought a 2011 xB new in Army Rock Metallic with (IIRC--embarrassing that I can't remember, since it's my daily driver!) 17" Scion alloys. (Oddly enough, from the Scion configurator, it doesn't look like alloys are even offered on the 2012s, possibly to cut costs as Toyota phases the xB out of the Scion lineup.)
Looks like I should consider going to the 16" steelies before making any decisions on suspension, but I do want a vehicle that's less tightly sprung. When I test drove it, the handling was spot-on, but I have to admit I kinda settled when it came to the ride. Also, I didn't take it down the bumpiest streets.
But, let's say I do decide to plunk down the cash to pull the Scion alloys and put on stock Scion 16" steel on. Given that I would like as soft a ride as is practical, what tires do you recommend (preferably under $100 per tire), and with what springy bits?