Oh boy. It would really help if I read, huh? :lol:
Sorry! I definitely understand what you're talking about! If you didn't mind cutting up, drilling, and ultimately tapping your OEM tow hook, you could make your own very easily. Maybe you have a friend that works at a machine shop or something. :yes:
Another option would be a couple lengths of all-thread, nuts, and some large fender washers. Just like the one posted above!