I'm sure you're not the only one going through this. Good luck and stay positive. It's not the end of the world and it could always be worse.
If your payoff is 24k, it seems like you recently got the car and probably owe more than it's worth.
By rule of thumb (never actually calculated but this is what I was told), unless you've had your car for more than 3 years, on a typical 5 year loan, you probably owe more than what it's worth. You may be able to find somebody that's willing to take over your loan. Make sure your finance company allows this and that it is totally assumable. Other wise, if that person doesn't make the payment, you can really get screwed.
I've had a friend who went through something similar when he was younger. He had just purchased a car about 3 months ago. He was able to find somebody that would take over the loan. Then he went out and bought a car for about $2,000 just to get him around. He took on a part time job at UPS in the evening. About a year later, he was able to sell his car for like $1,500 and put $5,000 down on a new car to make his monthly payments lower. During that time, he was working full time and also a second job in the evening. He made peanut butter sandwiches and occasionally took some can food to lunch. He didn't go out, not only because of his financial situation but he didn't have the time. As I mentioned earlier, he turned it around pretty good. About a year later, he got promoted and still kept the job at UPS because the benefits package were so good. Now (about 5 years after all this), he's got a house, a wife and a kid, and some savings.
It's all in your will to succeed and how hard you try. Good luck.